~Loosing Doesn't Mean Forgetting.~

Hey Readers, So a few of my readers have e-mailed me some questions, and I would like to share the questions, and obviously my answers!


Question One:Where did the idea of your Blog title come from?

Answer: To be honest, it took me a while to come up with a title I liked- I came up with it because I was thinking about how I lost Javan(My 1st love, if you haven't read my other blog stories..) and I will NEVER be able to forget him. I was thinking about all the friends I have lost in Middle School, and the family members that I have lost, but that doesn't mean I have or will have to forget them. Most of my stories, are real life experiences that have made me stronger or are making me stronger, and I just thought it was an appropriate for my style of blogging.! :) Great question!! :D

Question Two: What did you see in Javan??

Answer: Ah, Good question. I really really don't know what sparked my heart that summer. I was just like, whoa, I like him! And He is GORGEOUS! He's got the Justin Bieber hair, the gorgeous blue eyes, and a cute tummy. :P So I thought he was sexy. (Mind you, he didn't get his sexy-ness till the summer before 8th grade. :P Thats when he stopped tucking in his shirts. XD) and I realized he was ALWAYS there for me, he ALWAYS let me brag to him about how amazing I thought Timmy was, even though I knew he liked me and Timmy didn't. Like, I DID ask Timmy out once, and Javan supported me every minute of the way, even when Timmy rejected me. So I guess it finally hit me that he was one of the sweetest guys ever, and I couldn't judge him based on popularity. I still think he's one of the sweetest guys ever. He has apologized to me so many times for the breakup, and I have forgiven him. So I guess I just saw who he really was, and liked him. <3

Question Three: What is the hardest part of your relationship with Jacob, or in Long Distance Relationships altogehter?

Answer: Trust. It is VERY difficult to have a solid trust for the other person. Javan, is my one friend who I can talk to about LDR Trust because he has been in one also, and the girl cheated on him. So the answer is trust, its even harder because I have NOT met Jacob yet. (He lives 45 minutes away, but our schedules aren't matching up for a date to the movies.) So not knowing who he is in person, makes the relationship a ton more harder. If he is the same person as he is through text/phone, then I am not worried. So I am hoping for the best, because I do have very deep feelings for him, and I honestly believe my feelings will skyrocket (for the better!) when I finally meet him. I do not believe he is cheating on me, and I really hope he's being honest.

Question Four: What is your favorite song, Why?

Answer: I really can't answer this question!! :( I have SO many favorites right now. I will have to say 'Super Bass' by Nicki Manaj is in the top 5 because I recently learned how to rap the whole thing! :D Goo me!!! :D

Question Five: Would you take Javan back if he asked you?

Answer: Well, I couldn't be much happier then I am now with Jacob, so as of right now, No. If something major happened to me and Jacob, I might reconsider, but I'm highly doubting a breakup.

Question Six: What is one quality that is important in picking a guy?

Answer: THE ABILITY TO MAKE ME SMILE! :D :D <3 Honestly, the simple things make me smile, and I think it is very important that a guy can make me smile. <3 Things like saying 'i love you' or calling me cute names, or sending cute flirty texts can make me smile. So yah, definitely in the top 3 of important qualities.
 :) Thanks for asking that, it made me smile to think of what makes me smile! :D (And I didn't even start on the in-person ways to make me smile.. ;) )

Question Seven: What one quality do you love about YOURSELF.?

Answer: Ohhh boy. Umm, My ability to make people smile, and my ability to help people with their problems. (I chose 2, is that alright?) When I make someone smile, then I feel like I made someone's day a little brighter, or I am easy to be fun around! I love making others smile.. and it usually isn't hard for me. <3 As for helping people with your problems, I swear that is my calling in life- to talk with people through their problems! (I'm considering a profession in this field!) I LOVE helping someone with their problems- it makes me feel so good to know someone will listen and follow my advice! (Readers, don't be afraid to e-mail me with a problem, I will give my 2 cents <3) So yes, I love these 2 qualities about myself! AMAZING question, this one was fun to answer. <3

These were today's questions, Thanks reader's for the questions!! If you have any questions/comments/ect.. then email me(: I would LOVE to hear from you guys! { Bigsister2one@yahoo.com }
Lots of love, Becca.