Monday, June 27, 2011

I Hate The Homecoming Queen!

    Girls- We ALL have had a moment,  err moments in our hectic lives where we don't feel beautiful. I was listening to my Pandora today, and a song- I Hate The Homecoming Queen[Emily Osmet] came on. It basically explains how Emily thinks the 'Homecoming Queen' at her school thinks she's all that and makes everyone else feel terrible about themselves. It's a VERY good song that can apply to ANY girl at any age, especially Highschool girls who try and try to be like the 'preppy,popular,'perfect' girl' at their school. I know I have tried to match my looks to those girls at my school. TERRIBLE MISTAKE! DO NOT DO THAT!!!! Although some girls seem 'perfect' , there is NO SUCH THING AS PERFECTION! This blog post is all about MY experiences about 'those girls' from 6th grade-8th grade.


Hey, So I don't know how many of my readers are comfortable with their looks. If you are, then I admire you! It took me a long 4 years to accept my imperfections. I am fortunate and never had to worry about my weight. I have my daddy's metabolism. I get really tired when people tell me "Oh you never have to get teased about your weight, your so skinny". Wrong. WRONG! Our school lunches are REALLY nasty, and most of the time I never ate them. So many people told me I starved myself and that I just did it to get attention. Wrong. The truth- I eat too much. I am such a junk-food-addict its crazy. It's really annoying how just because I happen to be thin, I get made fun of. Then, we have the girls who aren't size zero, who get made fun of for being 'overweight.' Excuse me, but I think EVERYONE needs to shut their mouth about who's too thin or too 'chubby' (I HATE the term 'fat', I REFUSE to use it.) until they can tell the public WHAT IS THE PERFECT WEIGHT? Why is it, that everyone is so quick too lash out at someone's weight to break someone's self esteem. Weight DOES NOT matter. If any of my readers are self-catious about your weight- DO NOT BE! Your beautiful no matter what your jean size is.

Another issue is having a perfect face- this is where my self-catious side comes out. I wear glasses and desperately need braces. I can not begin to tell you how much I have been teased for the fact that I need braces. It took me 4 years to finally stop caring. When I first started attending Public School (6th grade.) I got made fun of my imperfect smile..and I went home CRYING. I am now a Freshman and accept the fact I have an imperfect smile. I now am capable of believing someone when they tell me I am beautiful,cute,or pretty. In Middle School, Someone told me I was beautiful, and I fought with them. I didn't look like Maddie or Sarah or Abby and I desperately tried to look like them. I realize they are not more beautiful than me, we are equally beautiful. EVERY girl NEEDS to know and accept they are beautiful NO MATTER WHAT!!!! So what if you have acne, doesn't everyone? (Yes, even the girls with 'perfect' faces get undeniable zits at times!) It doesn't matter if you wear glasses- some pairs look extremely sexy and classy. Braces? I know so many people who WISH they had braces because they are cute. I love the look of braces- they are adorable, AND you get to pick your own colors- BRACES SHOW PERSONALITY!!!. Perfect smile? Go you! SHOW IT! Dont brag, but ITS OK TO BE PROUD! Another thing girls, its OK not to wear a bazillion pounds of makeup. So many guys find girls 'sexy' because they have a MASK of makeup on. I personally HATE foundation. I mean, I find it acceptable to wear on special occasions.. but I think natural beauty is much more gorgeous than a fake face. [NO GIRL IS BARBIE!] I wear eyeliner,mascara(Sometimes..I think 'long'lashes are kinda ugly..:P) and lipgloss. Wha-Lah! You have a pretty face still showing your natrual-ness.

I will continue this story later, I must go eat. Love You. <3

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